Kiwanis April 30 meeting Program: David Smazik, Senior Pastor, Presbyterian Church in Morristown spoke on "Generation Groups in the US - Action vs. Reaction".

David Smazik (left in photo), Senior Pastor, Presbyterian Church in Morristown spoke on "Generation Groups in the US - Action vs. Reaction" at the April 30, 2013 Kiwanis breakfast meeting held at Charlie Brown’s restaurant. He was introduced by John Eyre (right), Kiwanis President-Elect.

It used to be true that all you had to do to get people to come to your church was just to build it. Today, people don’t come because of inertia and friction. David described a book which is helpful in analyzing and managing this situation.

Strauss and Howe wrote a classic book, “Generations: The History of America's Future, 1584 to 2069. Click here to go to Amazon.com to buy the book. The work of these authors is described in a Wikipedia article, - click here.  Their research showed that there are four generations that appear in cycles which repeat themselves (see Wikipedia for a description). Four generations are Civic (born 1904-1924), Adaptive (1925-1942), Idealists (1940-1960), and Reactive (1960-1981). The cycle is repeating with Internet-Civic (1982-today). David elaborated on the four generations with interesting examples.

Members of the latest generation are using their computers or smartphones all the time. They are immersed in busy activities and are happy to just have a quiet time in church. Members of the Reactive generation disagree with the values of the earlier generations.

In a church, it is important to have a clear vision of what is needed and it must be aligned with the different generations. In closing, David pointed that the present generation is coming around to support the values of civic-minded groups like Kiwanis. They just get their information through different channels – social media of various kinds online.  They want to focus on one or two important causes - “causes to die for”. They look for high quality information and activities supporting those causes.

The members of the audience enthusiastically applauded the informative and entertaining presentation.

Cindy Caporaso presented November 23 program on Interfaith Hospitality Network

Cindy Caporaso, an Interfaith Hospitality Network (IHN) volunteer, was introduced by Diane O’Brien.  IHN provides a response to hunger and homelessness in Morris County. Cindy coordinates IHN in the Presbyterian Church of Chatham Township, where she is active in Missions. She also works on “before and after school” enrichment programs at Chatham elementary schools. The above photo shows (L to R) Doug Bryant, Cindy Caporaso and Diane O’Brien.

The parent organizations of IHN are The Interfaith Council for the Homeless in Morris County and Family Promise.

There are pockets of homeless and hunger needs in Morris County. For example there is a “tent city” whose residents go to the Community Soup Kitchen in the Church of the Redeemer in Morristown. The Kitchen serves over 300 people in the winter. Another program that deals with hunger is the Interfaith Food Pantry. A lot of food is contributed around the holidays. After the holidays, contributions decline so people should schedule support efforts in February. Her church goes to the Food Pantry once per month to do volunteer work.

A much larger (the size of seven football fields) food distribution center is located in Hillside, NJ near Newark. The Hillside Community Food Bank has food, a culinary school, a teachers’ store, a thrift store, and a children’s café. And, they make deliveries. When you go your local supermarket (e.g. Kings), the little $1 contributions cards at check-out provide money to the Community Food Bank, a very worthy cause.

Besides hunger, there is also the issue of homelessness. About 800 people in Morris County have no place to stay. There are 17,000 people living in sub-standard housing in Morris County. In 1986 the organization “Family Promise” was started to address needs of the homeless. Cindy referred to the chart shown above this paragraph to explain that Family Promise branched out to the Interfaith Council for Homeless Families of Morris County, which is now housed at the old Greystone Hospital. One arm of this organization is the IHN, 65 to 70 congregations that house the homeless 365 days per year. Churches host IHN residents for one week, four or five times per year. As the chart above shows, the IHN provides many more services than housing.

A typical week of hosting IHN begins with rearranging the church, converting classrooms to individual apartments for clients. There is also a larger common community room, game room and dining room. On Sunday, clients arrive with all their belongings in black plastic garbage bags. Church volunteers stay, sleep, and eat with the clients all the time they are in the building. Typically there are up to 15 clients who are served a hot meal when they arrive after which they go their “apartments” or common rooms. Clients are mostly single mothers with very young children. Weekday mornings, the IHN van comes and clients have to get on it. Children go to either their regular public school or day school. Adults are taken to work (if they have jobs), training, or the IHN day care center at Greystone. Clients have rules which are obeyed because the program is so good.

Cindy showed a video from Family Promise, which is trying to open more Hospitality Networks. Click here to view the video. She also handed out literature giving more details on the program.  Click here to go the Family Promise website to learn more about this organization.

The program includes clients who are poor as well as people who are educated and capable but just down on their luck. IHN provides shelter, food and tools to help clients becomes self-sufficient. There are some success stories. One woman recently completed her medical assistant training and is now looking for an internship position. She hopes to get a job and move into an apartment.